How To Pack + Italy Travel Guide

Last fall Emirates had a one-day sale - $450 round-trips to Milan - a deal we couldn't resist! We picked dates in April and gave ourselves 21 days to explore Europe. Within that time period, we considered traveling to many different countries, but eventually settled on spending two out of three weeks in Italy. Rail travel is easy and somewhat inexpensive, and ultimately the Italian destinations were at the very top of our wish list! (We spent 2 nights in Venice, 4 nights in Monterosso, 4 nights in Positano and 3 nights in Rome.)

Actual footage of me at rome airport

When packing for Europe, first and foremost, ask yourself: can I run an obstacle course with my luggage? No... really. Most train stations don’t have elevators or escalators so even if you're splurging for taxis, you’ll need to be able to carry whatever you bring up and down flights of stairs, possibly while sprinting if you’re trying to catch a train. For me, this meant:

  • One suitcase - the largest of this trio we purchased. The key here is that many "large" suitcases are 31-32 inches, but mine was only 28 inches - it makes a huge difference. You don't need all that space because you can't go over 50 pounds without paying additional fees anyway, and the shorter suitcases give you more leverage when picking them up. 
  • The game changer - wearing my laptop in a backpack so that my hands were free to manhandle my suitcase. I had the hardest time finding a backpack to fit my 13-inch laptop that wasn't ginormous, but this one was the perfect size. Highly recommend. (More backpack options here.)
  • I brought one straw hat which I tied to the backpack, so it wouldn't get crushed in my suitcase.
  • I usually had my small crossbody purse with me, too.  

That’s it. My hands were completely free for my suitcase, just like pictured above! 

Jewelry holder  /  Set of suitcases  /  Atomizer
Charging station  /  The perfect backpack  /  Privacy screen  /  Laptop sleeve
Travel adapter  /  Almonds  /  Larabars  /  Travel peanut butter

  • Every pound counts so I didn't pack any reading materials. Instead, I borrowed e-books from the library and uploaded them to my iPad. (See the seven books I read here.)
  • I put together a nighty night pack for overnight flights. I like to change into leggings, take out my contacts, use a makeup cloth to wash my face, brush my teeth, socks for my always cold feet, eye mask, and ear plugs or headphones for the white noise app on my phone.
  • My husband swears by this remote charging station for all his photography gear. 
  • I swear by this atomizer for perfume - simply fill it up with your favorite scent! And only bring as much as you'll use because after about 3 weeks it will start to evaporate. 
  • Consider bringing travel size laundry detergent so you can hand wash or use it at a laundromat.
  • For the bros, instead of a wallet, consider using a money belt to fend off pick pockets.
  • Other items to bring: a privacy screen and neoprene sleeve for your lap top, a travel adapter for the power outlets in Europe, and your favorite snacks!

Okay, now get ready to see everything I wore in 21 days. Ready?

 

Amalfi  /  Positano  /  Capri
Rome  /  Rome  /  Rome

Paris  /  Paris  /  Rennes  /  Montfort-sur-Meu

 

This was one of the best bags I’ve ever packed. Because trust me, I’ve had some real doozies! Can't count the number of times I've arrived at a destination only to be freezing to death, melting, or both. On this trip I used everything I packed (usually 2-5 times), and never wished I had brought something that I didn’t. You may not want to replicate exactly what I did here, because taking outfit photos was a major goal for us (and major fun, because we are nerds). Most of our fellow tourists were in casual athletic gear, which is what I wore for travel days. But on day trips like Capri, for example, I wore a floral maxi that was just as comfy but also made our pictures and memories that much more special. Here’s how to do it:

Dolce Vita  /  Coach  /  Nine West
Nike  /  Steve Madden

  • Pick your shoes and jackets first! How I was able to fit 21 days of clothing in one (somewhat small) suitcase was by only bringing things that worked with the same shoes and jackets. See shoes I brought above, and jackets I brought were brown leather, white blazer, denim, and black bomber.
  • We walked an average of 10 miles per day! I was meticulous about comfort, and only packed outfits that worked with probably not the ideal shoes for the outfit, but were super comfy.
  • You may not need five pairs of shoes, but bring several so if one pair gives you blisters you can easily rotate to a different pair. I tried to never wear the same pair two days in a row for that reason!
  • Make sure your shoes and clothes run the gamut weather-wise. I brought both sandals and shoes with socks, for example, in case the weather surprises you one way or the other. (And it did!)
  • Go light on jewelry. It's heavy, so I packed only delicate pieces for the most part.
  • Check the weather. We went in April, which meant it was both cold and hot. Hot in the sun, and cold in the shade. (At any given moment there would be someone in a bikini on the beach, and also someone in a puffer jacket!) Layers are everything, and my main rule: only pack things that look equally good with or without a jacket. This meant off-the-shoulder styles I love were pretty much off the table, because the star attraction – your shoulders – are covered up with a jacket. Another strategy: make one area of your body warm, and the other breezy (things like sleeveless with ankle boots, or a heavier jacket with sandals), so that one part of you might be warm/cold, but the other is comfortable. It helps balance out your temperature!
  • Wind is such an important factor to consider. You will notice that I only wore dresses that were midi or maxi length, or jumpsuits. You want to be able to sit cross-legged at a moment’s notice, and not be constantly worried about the wind blowing up your skirt.
  • My white blazer made it home in one piece but that was probably not the best idea. I felt responsible enough to keep it clean, but all those tourists rubbing up against me can’t be trusted. ;-)

My overall philosophy when packing for Italy is to wear the good china. This is your vacation!! You will have tons of photos and memories from this trip. Don’t be afraid to wear that maxi you normally reserve for weddings, for example, or to be a little fancier than usual. If you’re like me it will make your trip that much more fun!

    Dining Tips

    • You will find so many wonderful Italians who speak English, however, if you want your food to go, be sure to ask for “take away.” If you say “to go” they will likely have no idea what you mean! Also tap water = aqua naturale, and rocket salad means arugula.
    • It’s not customary to leave a tip at restaurants, however, they pretty much all have a cover charge. Usually $3-5 per person just for sitting and eating.
    • Check the menu/door/window for a credit card sign. They may ask you pay cash but ultimately they take cards if listed.
    • You will always have to ask for the bill. The Italian culture loves to take their time at meals and they will never want to rush you! So sit there all you want and then ask for the bill when you’re ready.
    • Asking for substitutions is not really a thing in Italy. Even something as simple as chicken with that pasta dish, they will not hesitate to tell you no!
    • Bread comes with every single meal, all gelatti is good gelatti, and pizza three times a day. Also, try the hot chocolate. It’s actual chocolate in the cup and not nearly as sweet as the American version.
    • My favorite meal is Cobb salad, so I struggled to find restaurants offering protein with greens. That is, until I found my meal of choice: "ensalata tonno" (tuna on greens, picture below). Tuna in Italy is different than ours, it’s delicious. And salad dressing is not usually available, which means I discovered the joy of using olive oil and/or balsamic, which pairs especially well with ensalata tonno.

    Train Travel

    • We used ItaliaRail.com for most trains within Italy, and EuroRail.com between Italy and France.
    • Make sure you download your train tickets to your phone before you leave, print them out, or put them in a Dropbox folder that’s accessible without Wifi. 
    • Trains are great because you keep your bags with you, you only need to show up a few minutes before departure, no need to turn off your phone or the other time consuming rituals that come with air travel. But it also takes longer to get there via train, so there’s a trade off.
    • If you haven’t gone to the bathroom while the train hurtles 120 mph down the track, you haven’t lived. Bonus points for open toilets where you can see the ground underneath you.
    • Minimize connections if you can. The slightest train delay (and they do happen) can screw up the entire journey if you’ve got several connections. We preferred the nonstop trains so much more – you get a bit of a break from sightseeing and you can take a rest. Plus longer trips have a snack car on board with food and drinks for purchase.
    • The reason everyone is huddled around electronic boards at train stations is that they don't post which track your train is on until 10-15 minutes before it departs. So you will wait there, and then sprint to your track. Also - use your time departing and train number to find your track, not your destination. Everything tells you last stop, not necessarily your stop, so just ignore that part and use the time and train number to narrow it down. (Same concept as using a subway train – but if you’re suburbanites like us, we were sorely out of practice!)
    • Be proactive; don’t take directions from someone without checking. We missed our ferry once because the ticket window told us the wrong platform number and we didn’t double check.

    Misc. Tips

    • You will encounter many travelers from other cultures in Italy (not Italians), and many do not believe in two things Americans hold in high esteem: 1. Personal space. 2. Taking turns. During our boat excursion in Capri, people were literally stepping on us and pushing us (kiss your personal bubble goodbye), and even if you wait your turn, they will go in front of you. It’s every man for himself! 
    • Exchange money at your bank before you go, or use an ATM when you arrive. Avoid the exchange money windows if you can.
    • Bathrooms are often co-ed. There might be separate stalls by gender, but then the main area with sinks is shared. Sometimes there’s a coin deposit of .50 or 1 Euro to get in, so carry coins with you. Also, carry hand sanitizer because there is often not soap available.
    • Tap water is perfectly safe for Americans. Consider carrying a reusable water bottle and using the fountains you’ll see located throughout.
    • We are intense non-stop travelers so we needed to be reminded to consider taking a chill day. We did our laundry and basically nothing in Positano one day and it was heaven.
    • Rick Steves is the man. The man who loves Italy more than anyone, and has tons and tons of free podcasts and walking tours to listen to at major attractions. Buy his book or download free walking tours before you go.

    What tips did we miss? Please add yours to the comment section!

    (Also see our Amalfi Coast, Cinque TerreVenice, and Off the Beaten Path in France travel guides for more details on those regions!)

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Two Outfits in Rome

     
     

    Altare della Patria

    Colosseum

    Roman Forum

    Basilica di Santa Francesca Romana

    Arco di Settimio Severo

    Arco di tito

     
     

    I saw a meme the other day: "Goes to Italy once. Posts photos for the next 38 weeks." I died laughing, because we really might be guilty of this! I didn't want to post all of the outfits at the same time, so here are two more from our trip in April. When we got to Rome it was unexpectedly hot, so instead of wearing this maxi dress with a denim jacket and ankle boots as planned, I switched to sandals and a straw hat for a scorching day at the Colosseum and Roman Forum. The evening we arrived, I threw on a colorful romper and bomber jacket, below. Tune in tomorrow for our final Italy/Europe post. (Promise!)

    Dress: Stitch Fix c/o (same, same)
    Hat: JCPenney c/o, $13 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Purse: Rebecca Minkoff c/o Stein Mart, $149 (samesame)
    Sandals: Dolce Vita c/o, old (similar)
    Necklaces: My Stella & Dot One, Two
    Approx. dates: Shoes are 4 years ago. Purse 1 year ago. Dress is 6 months ago. Hat is recent.

    Basilica Papale di Santa Maria Maggiore

    Romper: 1.State c/o Stein Mart, $50 (similar)
    Jacket: H&M, $25 (similarsimilar)
    Shoes: Nine West c/o Amazon, $70
    Hat: JCPenney c/o, $13 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Purse: Rebecca Minkoff c/o Stein Mart, $149 (samesame)
    Earrings: Kendra Scott c/o Amazon, $36
    Approx. dates: Romper, jacket, earrings, purse are 1 year ago.  Hat and shoes are recent.

    18 Books Read in 2017 (So Far)

     
     

    As a kid, I was positively ravenous about reading. Every time we’d leave the library with a fresh stack of books, it felt like getting away with highway robbery: how could something as wonderful as books possibly be free (to borrow)? In 4th grade the local library issued a challenge - to read 20 books over the summer, and I proudly turned in my sheet with something like 150 titles listed (no joke).

    And yet, when I look back over the last few years I haven’t been reading books at all. Why did I stop doing something I loved that much? I’m not big on New Year’s Resolutions but at the beginning of this year I set a goal to read more books! I knew I needed to make time for reading again, and I’m so glad I did. I mostly enjoy reading to glean knowledge from business or religion books, and I love memoirs written by women because I like learning from their experiences. I also read one novel this year, and was reminded of that wonderful feeling when a book carries you away to some far off distant land, making you forget where you are. (In this case, a 7-hour train ride across Italy – a wonderful way to pass the time!)

    Here are the books I read, and a brief review of each. Please let me know what books you are gobbling up and what you recommend, too!

    1.     Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely – Lysa TerKeust is a well-known author of more than 17 books and the president of Proverbs 31, and this is my first book of hers. I didn’t really relate to most of the stories/lessons in this book on a personal level, but I could absolutely see the value it could bring to someone else. Planning to pass this one on to a friend!

    2.     Power Your Happy: Work Hard, Play Nice & Build Your Dream Life  – Lisa Sugar is the founder of POPSUGAR, a company I work closely with (they sent me this copy). This book felt like a good fit for a recent college grad – a light, easy guide to all things in the workplace and life in general. For me, I enjoyed learning more of Lisa’s story and love her “nice always wins” attitude in business!

    3.     How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie – This is an old book and the title is really bad, but the hubs recommended it and I’m so glad I gave it a shot. It’s a business book, but more than that it’s a people book, full of wonderful lessons and deliciously vintage stories (it was written in the 1920s) that still ring true today. Highly recommend for anyone, but especially if you’re in a sales job.

    4.     The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho – This book gets so much hype, and while it was certainly good maybe I was expecting more? It’s a fun, easy read – a whimsical story that has a deeper meaning - so I recommend it, just so you know what everyone’s talking about. ;-)

    5.     The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus by Lee Strobel– A friend gave this to me 10 years ago and wish I hadn’t waited because it’s SO GOOD. It’s written by a courtroom reporter (and former atheist) who essentially puts the four Gospels (the story of Jesus) on trial. Each chapter covers a different type of evidence and includes an interview with an expert in that field. As scholarly as this book is, I also experienced a deep emotional connection. Really phenomenal book no matter your faith.

    This next set of books I read while traveling to/from/in Europe. I checked them out from our local library and downloaded them to my iPad. (Which is why the picture looks different – they are images of the covers, not hard copies.)

    1.     Love Warrior: A Memoir by Glennon Doyle Melton – An incredibly raw memoir about the author’s addiction and broken marriage, and holy smokes this woman can write! The entire book feels like a poem – her way with words is just incredible. Even though I haven’t gone through many of the things she has, I could empathize. You will wish you could put your feelings into words as eloquently as she does. 

    2.     Bossypants by Tina Fey –This book contains lots of short stories from her early life and career, as well as hilarious essays. In hindsight I really wish I had downloaded the audio book to hear it in her voice. Overall, a fun, light read.

    3.     Leaving Time by Jodi Picoult – I wanted to read a novel on our trip and randomly picked this one, by a well-known fiction author. Pros: this book is nice and long, kept me entertained for hours, and I love all the research she did about elephants. Cons: did not like the psychic theme, and I found myself being jarred back into reality because of sudden eye-rolling moments, which made it harder to enjoy. Mixed feelings on this one!

    4.     Tribes: We Need You To Lead Us by Seth Godin – This book is super short and easy to read, more like a long-form article. It’s a business book, the main concept being to motivate you to lead a “tribe” in your life and step out into leadership. (ps. I quoted this book in this recent blog post.)

    5.     #GIRLBOSS by Sophia Amoruso – This is written by the founder of fashion brand Nasty Gal at the height of the company’s success. The company went bankrupt recently, regardless, I love reading autobiographies and “how I got here” stories and this book was exactly that.

    6.     For the Love: Fighting for Grace in a World of Impossible Standards by Jen Hatmaker – You will want to be best friends with this author after you read this! I was rolling in tears from laughter, she made some excellent points about faith, and overall just kept me entertained and learning something new with every chapter. Highly recommend.

    7.     Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brene Brown – This is my second Brene Brown book. She is a researcher and like with her other book, I found her writing style to be very scholarly and factual. A good read full of interesting case studies.

    These are the other 6 books I’ve read this year. Go here to see my review for these!

    Which ones have you read? What books do you recommend?

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Adventures in Retail

     
     

    Our local mall made some big changes since my last visit a couple months ago! For starters, Macy's now has something called Macy's Backstage on the second floor. It is merchandised and priced similarly as TJ Maxx. I did a quick walk through and this embroidered coverup was calling my name. (So cute and looks 10x more expensive than what I paid.) Another big change - where the Limited used to be (sad face) is now a co-op of local artisans, how neat! Many of you said you were more focused on shopping local and pretty much everyone expressed that they were on a budget in my recent post about mall brands struggling, so both of these changes make a whole lot of sense! My other purchases were a straw tote (on my wish list for ages and finally found the perfect one), as well as the tassel charm I added to the bag and can be used for other things as well. I'm ready for another pool day, stat!

    Coverup: Macy's Backstage, $20 (similar below)
    Bag: Forever 21, $25 (similar, similar)
    Tassel charm: Francesca's, $14 (similar, similar)
    Shoes: Dolce Vita c/o Amazon, $33
    Earrings: Amazon c/o, $18
    Sunglasses: Foster Grant, $15 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Flamingo: Nordstrom c/o (similar)
    Approx. dates: Shoes, sunglasses and earrings are recent. Bag and coverup are new.

    Shopbop  /  ASOS  /  Saks Off 5th  /  Macy's
    Macy's  /  J.Crew Factory  /  TJ Maxx  /  ASOS  /  ASOS
    Shoptiques  /  Forever 21  /  ASOS  /  Topshop  /  Nordstrom

    Today's Everyday Fashion: The Polka Dot Dress

     
     
     

    Inspiration: Reformation

     

    Today's inspiration comes from fair trade brand Reformation. They make edgy, trendy clothes that are really cute (and come with a pretty hefty price tag unfortunately!). Their slogan is "Being naked is the #1 most sustainable option. We're #2." and I would argue that along with being naked, reusing/wearing something you already own tops that list, too. My dress is from 2012 (see below) and instead of buying new, I'm pulling it out of my closet again this spring. I styled it with a straw hat and purse, and wedge slides, much like my inspiration but also to bring the dress up to date with some trendy accessories. Polka dots seem to never really go out of style and can be a good investment; check out some options below! 

    Dress: boutique c/o, old (similar below)
    Cardigan: Banana Republic, $14 (similar)
    Clutch: Gap, $12 (similar, similar, similar)
    Shoes: Stitch Fix c/o (similar, similar)
    Hat: Mud Pie c/o, $20
    Necklaces: My Stella & Dot One, Two
    Earrings: My Stella & Dot
    Approx. dates: Cardigan is 6 years ago. Dress is 5 years ago. Clutch is 4 years ago. Hat and shoes are recent.

     

    Original post with this dress - March 20, 2012

     

    Sneakers + Skirts 3 Ways With Shoes.com

    In the fashion world right now, sneakers are everything. They’re on runways, celebrities, and paired with just about every type of outfit. Personally, you don’t have to twist my arm to get on board with this trend; anything as comfy as sneakers is welcome in my closet!

    That’s why I was pumped when shoes.com (formerly ShoeBuy) pitched the idea of doing a blog post about wearing sneakers and skirts together. I got right to work, styling a pair of white Adidas sneakers (complete with fun hologram stripes and logo) with three different skirts. Here are my tips:

    1. Anything goes; there are no rules. Maxi skirts, full skirts, or slim skirts – any of these shapes can work with sneakers.
    2. Sneakers can tone down a shorter skirt or a tight fit by adding a cool tomboy vibe.
    3. Sneakers are not just for one aesthetic (both edgy looks and feminine styles work, for example), or only for casual outfits - a dressy skirt also works, too.

    How do you wear sneakers with a skirt? Which outfit is your favorite?

    Head to shoes.com to check out their great selection of sneakers (and every other kind of shoe) and shop some of my favorites below!

    Lacoste  /  Lacoste  /  Puma
    Converse  /  Puma  /  Brooks
    Puma  /  Puma  /  Converse
    Puma  /  Adidas  /  Converse

    Today’s post is brought to you by shoes.com and ShopStyle. All images, editorial decisions, and opinions are solely my own.

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Pool Day

     
     
     
     

    When Victoria's Secret announced they were no longer selling swim suits last year, it seemed to be the general consensus among my friends that we had no idea where to buy them now. So this summer I've been on the hunt to see what else is out there. So far I've only ordered this off-shoulder striped swim suit (and matching white fringe earrings) from Amazon, which (shocker based on price and reviews) does not quite fit me perfectly. I am loving off-shoulder, ruffle and stripe details for swim suits this summer, so I rounded up a bunch of options below. If you know of any great places for swim suits please do share! 

    Swim suit: Amazon c/o, $19
    Earrings: Amazon c/o, $18
    Pom-poms: Forever 21, $13
    Hat: Old Navy, $20 (similar, similar)
    Sunglasses: LOFT, $10 (similar)
    Hoodie: LOFT, $22 (similar, similar, similar)
    Shorts: Levi's c/o, $27 (same)
    Approx. dates: Hat is 3 years ago. Sunglasses, hoodie and shorts are 1 year ago. Swim suit, earrings, pom poms are recent.

    Express  /  Charlotte Russe  /  ASOS  /  ASOS
    ASOS  /  Target  /  ASOS  /  Target
    ASOS  /  Target  /  Splendid  /  ASOS

    $100 Giveaway With Mud Pie

     

    Top  /  Shorts  /  Bracelets  / Clutch

     

    Top  /  Hat

     

    Romper  /  Clutch  /  Hat

    Dress  /  Hat  /  Clutch  /  Bracelets

     

    Top  /  Shorts  /  Bracelets  / Clutch

    Romper  /  Clutch  /  Hat

    Dress  /  Hat  /  Clutch  /  Bracelets

    Top  /  Hat  /  Shorts  /  Purse

    Be still my flamingo, ruffle, seersucker, maxi, sun hat and romper loving heart!! Mud Pie’s summer collection is entirely too much fun! I mean, a flamingo print with a ruffle collar? Pink seersucker with a bow hat? A chic black maxi with matching tassel bracelets? And a super comfy stripe romper? You had me at hello Mud Pie…

    As if all of these adorable outfits were not enough fun for one post, I’ve got three exciting things to share with you:

    1. Mud Pie’s Memorial Day sale starts tomorrow, with free shipping on orders $25 and up between 5/27-5/30.
    2. A new discount site called Mud Pie Market is launching on June 14th. Be the first to score amazing deals by following Mud Pie on Instagram and Facebook.
    3. We’re doing a $100 giveaway to mud-pie.com! Please follow @mudpiegift on Instagram, find their post featuring our giveaway and tag a friend in the comment section to enter. (The contest will run from 5/26-5/29; winner will be announced 5/30.)

    So what are you waiting for?! Head to Mud Pie to shop + enter our giveaway on Instagram!

    Which Mud Pie outfit or item is your favorite?

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    Top  /  Hat  /  Shorts  /  Purse

    Dress  /  Hat  /  Clutch  /  Bracelets

     

    Romper  /  Clutch  /  Hat

    Today’s post is brought to you by Mud Pie. All clothing selections, opinions and editorial decisions are my own. 

    Cleaning Out My Closet With thredUP

     
     

    I am continually pruning my wardrobe using what I call a two-closet system. Whenever something in my closet feels questionable, I move it to a second closet in a spare room. I allow those items to marinate there for a bit, and a couple times a year I purge. If I have totally forgotten about that particular item’s existence, then I know it’s time to let it go! (And when I still can't decide, I use this handy quiz.)

    This next part is complicated for me, because where should my clothes go from there?! I mostly shop budget brands but some higher end items could probably get a good amount of coin on an auction site. Which sounds nice in theory, but when am I actually going to have time to photograph it, write a description, collect payment and then drive to the post office? (I’ve done this before and it can take a full day of work just to sell a few things.) So the items sit there, waiting for the day I have time to sell them.

    Another scenario - I take a stack to a local consignment shop, but they only want a specific aesthetic and brands, so I go home with a good amount of clothing still in the bag. Or, I gather up some items and take it to charity drop-off, only to read later that much of the clothing people donate actually winds up in a landfill. (Wouldn’t it be better if it just stayed marinating in my closet at that point?!)

    This is where thredUP’s Clean Out Kit comes in. It’s the perfect solution.

    thredUP is very clear from the start: their Clean Out Kits are not a great way to get rich. (This is not an auction site people!) And unlike auction sites, it’s so easy - they do absolutely all of the work for you! Just go here and order your Clean Out Kit. There’s a $5 charge, which will be paid back when they send you a check or give you store credit for your clothes. The Kit arrives in a cute polka dot envelope. You fill the bag, seal it and stick it in the mail with the prepaid postage. That’s it!

    It took all of 5 minutes to fill my thredUP bag to the brim with brand-name clothing that still has lots of life left in it. (Check out their list of accepted brands.) I opted to have whatever they don’t take donated, rather than having it sent back to me. And unlike charity centers, thredUP guarantees your items will never wind up in the landfill. I don’t expect much of a pay out from my bag in terms of cash money but I still feel like I’m winning because:

    1. My "second" closet is looking nice and empty now, which feels awesome.
    2. My clothing deserves a good home where it can be worn and appreciated. (Of course, the ultimate goal is to buy items you can commit to loving long term, but let’s just say I have not mastered this yet completely, plus some clothing items don’t fit anymore, and some styles I feel I have aged out of and are better suited for someone younger).
    3. I know thredUP will never send my clothes to the landfill. (HUGE relief. Love this so much!)
    4.  Even if they only send me $10, that’s $10 I didn’t have before.

    If this sounds like something that would make your day (and help you find a good home for all those lonely clothes hanging in your closet), then head over to thredUP and order your Clean Out Kit. And enjoy feeling awesome that you accomplished a whole lot in no time flat!

     
     

    ps. thredUP is also a bangin’ place to buy secondhand clothing (see deals I’ve scored herehere).
    pps. Don’t let Bella's grumpy face fool you, dogs love thredUP too!

    Today’s post is brought to you by thredUP. All opinions and editorial decisions are my own. 

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Nordstrom Sale

     
     
     
     

    Today marks the start of the Nordstrom Half Yearly Sale (5/24-6/4), so I figured it was the perfect time to snap some photos of this gorgeous maxi dress I picked up a few weeks ago! I've been agonizing over it because it's perfect, but without any event in particular to wear it to I'm not thrilled with the price. I'm all about buying fewer items with my monthly clothing budget these days, but it's still pushing the boundaries of what I normally spend. I got inspired to order it after wearing a similar maxi for an adventurous travel day in Capri. I could see wearing it in a similar way, with flats for vacation, or even to church or an impromptu brunch date. If you wear it enough times, was it really that expensive to begin with? Will the investment be worth it? Time will surely tell...

    Dress: Eliza J/Nordstrom, $158
    Shoes: Jessica Simpson c/o Macy's, $59 (samesimilarsimilarsimilar)
    Purse: Aldo c/o Amazon, $40 (similarsimilar
    Earrings: boutique, old (similar, similar)
    Sunglasses: Foster Grant, $15 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Approx. dates: Earrings are 4 years ago. Shoes are 3 years ago. Purse is 1 year ago. Dress is new.

    One  /  Two  /  Three  /  Four  /  Five
    Six  /  Seven  /  Eight  /  Nine  /  Ten

    Shot on location at this beautiful home for sale. Photos here and in the listing by @joshuacjohnson.

    Your Summer Capsule Wardrobe With VacayStyle

    With so many important things vying for your attention – work, family, household – wouldn’t it be great if someone could put together a capsule wardrobe for you, that you could wear all summer long? Or at the very least, pack your bag for your next vacation? Enter VacayStyle, a company that takes all of the effort out of doing just that. Their genius 5-piece collections create 15 or more outfits, so need to spend time deciding what will fit in your suitcase or how to put things together: just follow the handy outfit cards for all the combinations you can create!

    VacayStyle is made in the USA (San Francisco, to be exact), with soft and wrinkle resistant fabrics, and they offer free shipping both ways so you can try them out risk free. With any 5-item purchase (an entire collection or mix and match from the different collections) you automatically get 20% off and a free Vacay beach bag. Plus take an additional 15% off of that with code J15%! (Note: this code works no matter how many items you purchase, and can be combined with the 20% off discount.)

    I’m wearing the Gold Coast Collection in today’s post, and can’t say enough great things about the versatility of the romper and jumpsuit (they come apart!) as well as the maxi dress that doubles as a skirt. Not to mention the white tunic with black fringe is so incredibly cute! Don’t take my word for it, though. Head to VacayStyle to see all eight collections and try it out yourself!

    Tunic

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    Shot on location at the Hilton Orlando. Images by @joshuacjohnson.

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Date Night

     

    Inspiration: H&M

     

    We were checking out the view from the pictured balcony before our dinner date when we realized it might be a cool spot for outfit pictures! I posted a look with this top last year, but changed just about everything else about the outfit so figured it was worth photographing again. I'm certainly planning to wear this top a lot again this summer; it's one of my faves. I shared some similar blush pink tops, as well as a selfie from our date night, below!

    Top: Shopbop, $44 (similar below)
    Jeans: Express, $37 (similarsimilar)
    Shoes:  JCPenney c/o, $30 (in blush)
    Purse: Rebecca Minkoff c/o Stein Mart, $149 (samesame)
    Earrings: Amazon c/o, $18
    Sunglasses: Foster Grant, $15 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Approx. dates: Top and jeans are 1 year ago. Purse is 6 months ago. Earrings and shoes are recent.

     
     

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Lemon Print Dress

     
     

    I've had a thing for lemon print for as along as I can remember (see here and here), and just couldn't resist ordering this dress about a month ago. It looks great in person and was really fun to wear, but as I discovered, it's also a bit of a pain! It was too low-cut in the front so I had to safety pin it, it wrinkles easily, and the slightest breeze sends the skirt flying. I still think that for the love of lemons it's worth the extra effort (at least, for indoor occasions) and I'm tempted to add a little lemon or pineapple accessory to my closet this summer, as well. Check out all the cute options below! 

    Jacket: J.Crew Factory, $51 (similarsimilar
    Dress: Forever 21, $20 (similar below)
    Purse: Marc Jacobs/Saks Off Fifth, $51 (similar, similar, similar)
    Shoes: Charlotte Russe, $20
    Earrings: Amazon c/o, $18
    Sunglasses: Foster Grant, $15 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Approx. dates: Purse is 2 years ago. Jacket is 1 year ago. Earrings, dress and shoes are new.

    Dillard's  /  Kohl's  /  Nordstrom Rack  /   Shoptiques  /  J.Crew  /  ModCloth
    Nordstrom  /  Target  /  J.Crew  /  Shopbop  /  Forever 21
    Shoptiques  /  Forever 21  /  J.Crew Factory  /  Dillard's  /  Amazon

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Off the Beaten Path in France

     
     
     
     

    1. Mont Saint MIchel in Normandy, France

    One of the coolest parts of our trip didn't include many "outfit photos" per se, but I wanted to share it nonetheless. If you're considering traveling to France, these are some off the beaten path places we highly recommend! First up is probably the most well-known of the three - Mont Saint Michel (all the photos above). A monastery and historical site, it is an absolutely spectacular site to behold. You can spot it miles before you get there, standing out in stark contrast against the countryside that surrounds it. And after paying an admission fee you can spend an entire day roaming around inside.

     
     

    2. Montfort-sur-Meu, France

    Next up is a little town that's near and dear to my heart - Montfort-sur-Meu (photos above). This is where we stayed with my family for three nights. With a population of about 5,000 it reminded me a lot of the village in the new Beauty and the Beast movie (adorable!). We visited the farmer's market on Saturday morning, attended mass on Sunday, and shared lots of meals and family time!

    3. Rennes, France

    Only two hours by train from Paris, with a population of about 200,000, Rennes is a wonderful place to get a taste of France without the hustle and bustle of a big city. There was so much to see - churches, government buildings, public parks with so (!) many beautiful flowers in bloom, the fish market and great restaurants and shopping. We spent an afternoon, but I'd love to go back and stay a couple days to really soak it in. (I think I even like it even better than Paris!) 

    Two other places we didn't visit this time, but make great day trips from Paris are Versailles and Monet's home in Giverny. What other spots do you recommend in France? We'd love to add more to our list!

    All photos © joshuacjohnson

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Outfits in Paris

     
     
     
     

    These pictures were taken almost one month ago today in Paris! During our 3-week trip to Europe we spent two nights in The City of Lights. With limited time and lots of ground to cover, we decided to do the "hop on and off" bus tour. Sitting on the top deck watching Paris go by was such a great way to see it, and we were able to disembark and spend time at a few stops - the Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, Sacre Coeur, and the Louvre. (The churches - Notre Dame and Sacre Coeur - are also both free to enter.) I loved wearing this leopard coat with black turtleneck and jeans - it was comfy and I felt appropriately chic for one of the best-dressed cities in the world. My outfit for the second day (sweater and jeans, below), however, was not my favorite. I was fighting a cold and didn't have the energy to put much effort into getting dressed, and it wound up being much warmer than the weather report had predicted so I ditched the jacket. Regardless, we had a wonderful time. I mean, it's Paris...how can you not?! Every moment is beautiful!  

    Coat: H&M, $80 (similar, similar)
    Sweater: J.Crew Factory, $36 (similar, similar)
    Jeans: Stitch Fix c/o (similarsimilar)
    Shoes: Nine West c/o Amazon, $70
    Sunglasses: Express, $25
    Purse: Marc Jacobs/Saks Off 5th, $288 (samesimilar)
    Approx. dates: Sweater, coat, jeans and purse are 6 months ago. Shoes and sunglasses are recent.

     
     

    Today's Everyday Fashion: The Trend That's Free

     
     

    I'm not even sure it qualifies as a trend, since it's been around as long as "preppy" has been a part of the English language, but tying a sweater around the 'ole shoulders is my favorite thing to do lately. And let me tell you why (as if I'd ever leave you wondering!!) - because in Florida layering is next to impossible, it's too hot! The whole sweater tying trend is a genius way to add another color or print to your look while keeping your arms nice and breezy. (I mean, this periwinkle shell is cute, but not nearly as cute as when it's paired with a neon pink sweater.) Also, this trend does not require you to buy anything, it's free! Simply grab whatever cardigan you've got lying around and tie it around your shoulders - and voila - you're done. Enjoy the free preppy trend and breezy arms this spring and summer; I know I will! 

    Cardigan: Gap, $14 (similar below)
    Shell: J.Crew Factory, $17
    Jeans: Express, $37 (similarsimilar)
    Sandals: Dolce Vita c/o Amazon, $33
    Earrings: Kendra Scott c/o Amazon, $36
    Purse: Rebecca Minkoff c/o Stein Mart, $149 (samesame)
    Sunglasses: Foster Grant, $15 (similarsimilarsimilar)
    Approx. dates: Cardigan is 4 years ago. Jeans and earrings are 1 year ago. Purse is 6 months ago. Sandals were 4 years ago, but just replaced them. Shell is new. 

    Today's Everyday Fashion: Rainbows for Life

     
     

    There's something about a rainbow of colors that makes me want to jump for joy! Maybe it's nostalgia for my first rainbow sweater, which I thrifted in high school (below), or the Lisa Frank stickers I played with as a kid. But give me all the rainbow all the time, and I'll happily keep piling on bright colors - yellow pants, blue shoes, even an orange wall. The end result has a slight Bert & Ernie vibe (another childhood favorite), and all the cute rainbow items I found below have me seriously swooning. Rainbow then, rainbow now, rainbow for life!  

    Top: J.Crew Factory, $40
    Pants: LOFT, $42
    Shoes: Nine West c/o Amazon, $66
    Earrings: Kendra Scott c/o NM, $55 (same)
    Purse: Calvin Klein/Saks Off Fifth, $130 (similarsimilar)
    Approx. dates: Purse is 4 years ago. Earrings are 1 year ago. Pants and shoes are 6 months ago. Top is new.

    Rocking the rainbow look circa 2000

    Inflatable  /  Dress  /  Swimsuit  /  Top
    Swimsuit  /  Tape dispenser  /  Socks  /  Dress  / Phone case
    Halter  /  Camera  /  Skirt  /  Inflatable  /  Sunglasses

    A Truly Fashionable Take On Fair Trade With Everlane

    I've been straight up stalking the Everlane website for the past 6 months. I’m so intrigued by their chic, modern aesthetic, low, everyday prices for high-quality materials, as well as their promise of ethical fashion. (They practice “radical transparency” by revealing the true cost and markups to customers, and by building personal relationships with factories that make their designs.)

    Which is precisely why I was over the moon when they got in touch about partnering together – I couldn’t wait to finally try it out! Everything was exactly as I hoped it would be: the fit was great, the quality of the materials was impressive. My favorites are the grey/white silk dress (pictured above – the perfect layering piece that can be worn so many different ways), as well their v-neck tees (not pictured, but will be wearing on repeat!), and the black crop top.

    Literally all of the Everlane items in today’s post gets an A+ from me, though. Too often fair trade fashion is not very exciting and leaves something to be desired, but Everlane feels like a needle in the haystack – they have truly nailed both sides of the equation.

    Have you tried Everlane yet? Which outfit or item is your favorite?

    Trench coat  /  Silk dress  /  Cotton pants  /  Sweater dress
    Linen tee  /  Cotton top  /  Cotton top
    Silk top  /  Linen top  /  Cotton hoodie

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    American Malls Are Closing: How Retail Changed (And I Did Too)

     
     

    J.Crew's tweedy blazers and outrageously styled outfits captured my fashion loving heart from the moment I started paying attention. So when I read in The New Yorker recently that their sales have plummeted the last two years, they are two billion dollars in debt, and creative director Jenna Lyons has stepped down, it made my heart hurt…. a lot.

    And it’s not just J.Crew, you guys. Another longtime favorite of mine, The Limited, filed for Chapter 11 in January, and closed all of its stores. Gap and Macy’s have both announced store closures recently (225 since 2015 for Gap, and 63 stores and 10,000 jobs cut last week for Macy’s), and retail analyst Jan Rogers Kniffen told CNBC that he predicts "400 of America’s 1,100 enclosed malls will close in the coming years, and only 250 of those remaining will thrive.” What in the world is going on?!!

    A local mall in ruins (Photo Credit: Joshua Johnson)

    Reading these (depressing) stats got me all nostalgic for the early days of J’s Everyday Fashion. Looking back, it certainly felt as if all of us shopped at the same places, didn’t it? It was Limited, Gap, Banana and LOFT, head-to-toe. We loved our dependable mall brands and stuck with them, sharing our favorite finds and best tips for scoring discounts. In some ways I miss those days and will always hold J.Crew in high regard (Jenna Lyons is a creative genius, you’ll never convince me otherwise), but I also embody the exact shopping behaviors described in these articles, which are contributing to the downturn of these companies and shuttering hundreds of American malls. It got me wondering: do we (me and you) still have a lot in common? Do you relate to these new shopping behaviors the way that I do? Have all of us changed together? Here's what the articles point to:         

    1.     Millenials are spending more money on experiences and not things. (Yes! I've had the same clothing budget since 2007, but my budget for travel has increased exponentially.)

    2.     Millenials rarely go to the mall. (In just a few years, my shopping shifted from 95% at the mall, to 95% online. And my in-person shopping is mostly consignment and discount stores like Ross – not the mall.)

    3.     The rise of Amazon fashion, which has been predicted to take the lead as the biggest US apparel retailer in 2017. (It’s my new favorite place for clothes. We also buy groceries from Amazon – how can you not with Prime?!)

    4.     Less loyalty to brands, and more of a focus on being price savvy. (Price savvy is my middle name. I’ve always blogged about the best mall deals I could find, but then new online stores started beating even those great prices. I clearly have some weak brand loyalty, because I did start shifting a good amount of my shopping over to the “even better deals.”)

    A local mall in ruins (Photo Credit: Joshua Johnson)

    Which begs the next question: where do we shop now? Because maybe like me, you’ve been feeling a little lost on this subject? For the last few years, I’ve been in a bit of a shopping limbo – a weird mix of being bored to tears with a good amount of what’s higher priced at the mall (or rather what those stores sell online, because let’s be real, I never go to the mall anymore), but also feeling untrusting of spending too much (or any!) money with the crop of super affordable foreign brands and “fast fashion” that seem to pop up everyday.

    Maybe they are leftover habits from “dependable mall brand days” gone by, but I struggle with trusting any new-to-me websites unless they offer free shipping and take returns. There's a good amount of sizing and quality continuity you can count on with a mall brand, and you will definitely get reliable customer service there. (Which is why when I do find a good one, I make sure to share it with you guys!)

    What I'm really heedful of though, are the online megastores based in Asia (SheIn, ChicWish, Choies, Romwe, DressLily, Rose Gal, SammyDress, to name a few) and flash sale sites where everything is adorable, but only costs $5. These sites often post images of designer clothing and not what they actually sell, use cheap quality, and refuse refunds to customers, and I can't imagine the poor working conditions and low wages for the people making the clothes if prices are that low? (My rule is: If something seems off, it probably is!) Even when I see how adorable (!!) their designs are, and know it would probably make my blog more popular if I were featuring those sites, I just can’t do it in good conscience. As a full-time blogger, when these sites reach out about working together, I just hit "delete" and move on. (Note: I worked with one of them one time in 2012, but haven't responded to requests since.)

     

    Back in the day (2010) - wearing Head-to-toe Banana Republic

     

    As I write this today, the question “where do I shop?” feels complicated and like there isn't an easy answer other than to say I’m striving for balance. As you’ll read in my book when it comes out this fall, fair trade and the environmental impact of clothing has become a bigger part of my fashion journey. I’m not dropping everything and running for the hills to live in a van and only wear organic cotton, but I will avoid the retailers I know for sure are bad. (To use a food metaphor I’m nowhere near being 100% organic, but I’m also not including McDonald’s in my diet, no matter how much people go crazy for the McRib.) I feel pretty far from either extreme with my shopping; I certainly land somewhere in the middle. 

    It’s a confusing time to be a shopper who is price conscious and wants fun, statement-making clothes, but also quality and ethics at the same time. Very rarely do I feel totally confident in what I’m buying so I tend to spread out my consumption across the mall brands I still love – JCPenney, Nordstrom, Macy’s, American Eagle, Kohl'sJ.Crew Factory (which is seeing huge growth, even as the parent brand is struggling), new favorites Amazon, ThredUp and Everlane (I’m obsessed – a post with them coming soon!), and a mix of international and affordable brands I shop more sparingly: Zara, H&M, ASOS, Charlotte Russe and Forever 21. (Again, I’m nowhere near perfect, and this article may be about shopping but my biggest focus is still on re-wearing what I already own, not buying new.)

    Now it’s your turn to spill the beans, because I really want to know: Where do your retail loyalties currently lie? In a complicated shopping landscape, are you still shopping American malls, mostly buying from international discount sites, or doing a mix of both? Please share your preferences, as well as any retailers you love that I may be missing -  in the interest of girl talk but also to help shape future blog content. I want to know where you're shopping these days, because the answer, it seems, is much more complicated than it ever was before.

    *****

    Stats referenced in this post come from these articles, which I highly recommend for further reading:
    The New Yorker "Why J.Crew's Vision of Preppy America Failed"
    Business of Fashion "Why Americans Aren't Shopping"
    Business of Fashion "J.Crew, Gap, Abercrombie & Fitch: The Trouble With America's Most Beloved Mall Brands"
    Buzzfeed "Here's Why You Should Think Twice Before Clicking On That $12 Dress On Facebook"

     

    A local abandoned mall (Photo Credit: Joshua Johnson)

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    Today's Everyday Fashion: Stripe Skirt, Two Ways

     
     

    I couldn't pick just one blue shirt to go with this pink stripe skirt (first seen here), so I decided to share both! The ruffle top looks cleaner in pictures, but the hubs and I both prefer the oversized stripe shirt in person. As much as I love shorts (lol), there is something so classy about a midi skirt; I would happily wear any of the options below. Which blue top do you prefer with this skirt?

    Stripe top: Banana, $22 (similar, similar, similar, similar)
    Ruffle top: H&M, $34 (similar, similarsimilar, similar)
    Skirt: Zulily, $22 (similar below)
    Shoes: JCPenney c/o, $30 (in blush)
    Purse: Aldo c/o Amazon, $40 (similarsimilar
    Earrings: Kate Spade outlet, $15 (same)
    Approx. dates: Purse and stripe top are 1 year ago. Ruffle top, skirt and shoes are last few months.